Sometimes it’s not all in your head! Understand the attitudes of those around you
Do you know when you start to notice that some people are more distant, giving dry answers or making up excuses not to meet?
Sometimes, separation comes gradually, but some signs can be very clear.
If you have the feeling that they are avoiding your presence, it’s not just in your head: some attitudes speak for themselves.
6 signs that people can’t stand you anymore and want to see you away
1. Short answers
For starters, one of the most obvious signs that someone is moving away is the way they respond to your messages or even how they respond to you in person.
Start noticing, if you notice that the answers are always short, dry and without much effort, it is possible that the person is trying to cut off contact with you little by little.
2. They no longer ask you out
You used to be called to roles, but now it seems like everything happens without you being called?
Well, I’m sorry to tell you, but the lack of invitations is one of the clearest signs that someone wants to avoid your business.
This can hurt and hurt you, but it also helps you identify who really values your company and wants to be with you.
3. Change of subject
Another sign that people want you away is trying to cut off what you’re saying or changing the subject quickly when you’re talking.
You can tell when someone is interested, they listen carefully and participate in the conversation.
However, if every time you start talking, they change the subject or divert focus, perhaps it’s because they no longer have the patience or interest in hearing what you have to say.
4. Lame excuses to avoid your company
If you notice that people close to you are always busy or simply come up with excuses as to why they can’t meet you, it could mean something far beyond a lack of time.
It is common that, when people want to move away, they use different situations to avoid encounters. Be careful if this becomes a pattern, as it is an attitude that shows that they may no longer want your company.
5. Comments on your behavior
In some cases, people don’t like direct confrontations, but end up blurting out opinions or comments that reveal how they feel.
Start paying attention, it could be a joke that seems innocent, but actually has a criticism behind it.
6. Disappearance on social media
Even though it may seem simple, behavior on social media is also a thermometer for relationships.
If you notice that friends or acquaintances have stopped interacting with your posts, liking your photos or sending memes, for example, this could be a sign that they don’t want you around.
Like it or not, interaction on social media is also a way of keeping in touch and demonstrating closeness.
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