But what if this happens, what can you do to dismiss them in a polite manner?
1. Set an end time in advance
A simple and efficient way to prevent visits from going on too long is to establish an end time from the beginning.
When you invite her, subtly say how late you’ll be available.
You could say something like, “I’m enjoying your visit, but I need to leave later for an appointment.”
This is an excellent excuse for her not to linger too long.
2. Prepare a “plan B”
A good strategy is to have an appointment or event planned for right after the visit.
For example, you might say, “Unfortunately, I have to leave later, so I’m going to have to start getting ready.”
This sets the tone that the visit needs to end soon without seeming rude.
3. Give subtle signals that it’s time to go
Sometimes a non-verbal cue is enough for visitors to realize they are already working overtime.
Start clearing the table, turning off lights, or even subtly putting away your things.
If she is not too “loose”, she will notice the movement and will direct the conversation to the end.
4. Offer alternatives
If you notice that guests really don’t want to leave, offer a pleasant alternative.
Say something like, “How about we go get coffee somewhere else?” Or, “Shall we continue our conversation next weekend?”
This way, you maintain the good relationship, but put an end to it.
5. Use o humor
Sometimes, being good-natured can be an excellent option to send visitors away without creating discomfort.
As a lighthearted joke, you might comment, “I think my couch is starting to call me back!” Or even: “I would love to continue, but my pillow is already waiting for me!”
This breaks the ice and can help smooth the situation without being rude.
6. Be honest
In some situations, being direct may be the best solution.
If you notice that the visit is going on too long and she doesn’t seem to want to leave, you may need to be honest and say something like, “I’m enjoying our conversation, but I’m getting tired. I need to rest.”
Honesty, when done politely, can be the best option.
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