I entered Thursday at dawn watching the program. They already know: that of ironing to undone needs a little support. The issue of bullying was touched. On the table, Vanesa Moreno, Bob Pop, Sergio Medialdea (the actor who was the cousin of Zumosol), Carlota Corredera, Carmen Cabestany (president of NO to Harassment, born) and the father of Kira López, a girl to whom the harassment led to suicide.
I know the issue of bullying very well and, as Vanesa Romero, I have been in several schools fleeing from harassment. It is debated at the table if the stalkers remember (Bop Pop says no), if they apologize (with Sergio Medialdea one apologized, apparently) or if they come from unstructured families. At the table, several try to contain tears. This is harassment. You never forget. I remember from time to time of mine, and sometimes a child who was called, who was only eight years younger than me, and who committed suicide in September 2004.
Harassment is transverse, no matter how risk factors (such as having glasses, pen, overweight, being a nullity in sports). There are fat stalkers, ethnic and homosexual minorities. There are pijos and handsome stalkers, but also poor and ugly. There are stalkers of all kinds, just like there are harassed of all kinds. Those who feel something similar to repentance often use phrases such as “I was a bit of pimp”, but most say nothing. The number of stalkers who now work in an NGO or Yoga teachers is surprising. Sometimes I cross some of them.
The common factor of victims is meekness; They are always (or we have been) people who didn’t get with anyone. You never harass the unruly. And the common factor of the perpetrators is not, as they say sometimes, being insecure or coming from unstructured families. The second can be, but few people are with the self -esteem of the stalkers. I remember enjoying. My tears laughed and celebrated, my destruction. They were 11, 12, 13 and up to 17 years. They were perfectly aware of what they did. Mine and those of all those who were at that table next to, and also those who harassed Kira and Jokin, and so many others who did not reach adults; They stole their lives a few years before.
