Oliver was hit by the death of a partner Gábor († 45) who died after the sporting injury came out of cancereverything started when in January 2022, IT specialist visited a family in Hungary. “His mother noticed a small lump. She came out of the back of the shoulder blade and the pain was quite severe,” said.
Gábor immediately went to the local doctor who called for him to seek help after returning home. “All the time we thought it was a sports injury along with a cyst that might need drainage. The pain began to subside, but the lump was getting bigger until it became a big one like a golf ball, ” added Oliver.
Gabor got in March The results of the biopsy that confirmed the presence of Ewing’s sarcoma – forms of primary bone cancer – and metastasis. “It was a shock. Right at the beginning they told him how rare it was in an adult. The doctor explained that Gabor is not responsible for it, it is genetics, ” describes.
Half a year later he underwent an operation in which he removed the lumps from his left shoulder blade and right hand. In November, Gábor started treatment with radiotherapy AO three months later his hand and shoulder were considered healthy. Another test in May 2023, however, showed that the disease has spread to the ribs and later to the left loin, left shoulder bone, right femur and jaw. Gábor started a new chemotherapy plan, but doctors have found that it had no effect.
In November 2023 Cancer began to attack Gabor’s bones. “They softened very much. He underwent the replacement of the left hip joint and put his bars in both femur to strengthen his legs, ”he said. Gábor and his partner at the end of 2023 announced that they could not offer them any further treatment. They gave him six months of his life and placed him in palliative care in the hospice, where he died.
“When I look back at everything that has happened over the two years, you will not even realize what trauma you have survived,” Oliver finished. Early revelation is vital, and urged others to rely on organizations and charities that will give them support not to feel isolated.
