The way you communicate directly affects the way other people see you
A few words may seem harmless, but the way you use them can affect, and a lot, the way others perceive your intelligence.
Yes, the ones we chose in everyday life make all the difference in communication. Worse: a lot of people don’t even realize that they are making this mistake.
Have you ever had the feeling that someone seems insecure or unprepared just by the way of speaking?
So it is! Sometimes it all comes down to certain words that sound empty, confusing or even unnecessary.
Careful! These 6 words make you look less intelligent
1. Basically
This word is often used to look technical or explain something complex.
But in practice, it is almost never necessary. Worse, when used in excess, it makes you look like someone trying to look more than it really is.
Try to go straight to the point. If you need to simplify something, simplify.
2. I think
“I think so”, “I think it’s right,” “I think I understand.” When used all the time, the “I think” conveys insecurity.
It seems that you are not sure what you are saying, even when you have.
Prefer more objective phrases. Change for “yes”, “right”, “I understood”.
3. Like this
It is one of the greatest language addictions today. Sounds like a lack of preparation.
Also, it gives the impression that it is trying to fill the silence with loose words.
If you need to make time to think, breathe or take a break. It is better than seeming confusing or immature.
4.
“This thing there,” “that thing.” “Thing” is too generic. It can mean anything, so it means nothing.
When you say “thing”, you lose the chance to be specific.
Replace with more accurate words.
5.
This expression conveys neglect or disinterest.
Even if it’s not your intention, “I don’t know” gives the idea that you don’t care or don’t know what you’re talking about.
If you are not sure something, say you will check, that you are still thinking or you need more.
6. Literally (when used wrong)
A lot of people use “literally” to emphasize, even when nothing was literal.
“I literally exploded with anger” is a classic example, and wrong.
Those who listen perceive and may find it funny, but the message gets lost.
Use “literally” only when the meaning is actually literal.
Otherwise, say “really”, “real” or just emphasize with the right intonation.
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