Behavior in meetings has a deep psychological impact. Ghosting and BreadcrumBing seem to have Levian terms, but can have serious consequences. Watch out for the Maus wolves… Not everything is like the history of Cinderella.
Every day, thousands of people around the world use meetings applications to start conversations with strangers, with the alleged mutual purpose of finding a partner.
However, trusting blindly in the intentions of others is the first mistake that many users commit – the person across the screen may not really be looking for true love, or something even similar.
In fact, several studies have revealed that people use these applications for all kinds of reasons, from talking to simply pending other profiles. When it comes to meetings of meetings, the search for true love is the last thing many people think.
Far from being a utilitarian tool to find pairs, these applications They are more like a classic children’s talefull of sly characters and emotional challenges.
It is a world populated by wolvesmisleading rails of bread crumbs e ghosts that disappear mysteriously not ar.
The-wolf of the Tinders
In this story, the wolf lurks in the depths of the forest of meetings. Like the hungry wolf of the red hood, this wolf hides behind a veil of mistake-studies indicate that in the early phase of meeting someone online, About 7% of the information revealed is false.
People often lie to make your profile more interestingor to avoid embarrassing conversations.
But while in children’s tales the truth always comes to the top, in an application of meetings can be much more difficult to distinguish what is true Of what is false, and many users become disappointed and skeptical after being deceived. A bad start for any relationship.
The crumbs of emotional bread
In this story, many venture into a forest full of bread crumbs marking the way. Unlike Hansel and Gretel, these are not left to mark the way home, but to Keep the defenseless victims, stuck in an intricate emotional maze.
The practice of “Breadcrumbing” consists of showing sporadic and irregular signs of interestwithout any real intention to make the relationship advance.
Someone who wakes up your initial interest can leave these signs from time to time – a message here, a taste there – to keep some hope alive, but never offers much more. Who follows the rail often ends up lostnot knowing what to expect in each step.
According to one of 2020, about 35% of users of meetings have already been authors or victims of breadcrumbing.
And it’s far from harmless. Breadcrumbing leaves its victims trapped in a complicated emotional web, which is difficult to leave without damage.
Others have shown that as BreadcrumBing extends over time, people may feel less satisfied with life and bother and powerless-especially when they realize that those who delude them have never intended to take the relationship further.
Not everything is like Cinderella
In this modern tale, we also find ghosts that, as in the classics, have the habit of disappearing.
This sudden disappearance is known for “ghosting”.
Repeated or prolonged interactions in an application of meetings can create expectations, so when someone is the victim of ghostingyou can feel abandoned and confused, without realizing what happened or why.
This perplexity can sometimes have a deep emotional impact.
Here we can draw a parallel with another fairy tale moment: the magical encounter between Cinderella and the prince. When they get to know each other, they feel an immediate and intense attraction-as when two people start talking in an application.
The Cinderella then “does ghosting” to the enchanted prince, leaving him only a crystal shoe and a vague feeling of confusion. Fortunately for the prince (and thanks to his determined effort), the story ends well and love prevails.
On the contrary, in the modern version of meetings, the ghosting rarely ends with the protagonists living happily ever after.
The same study of 2020 above indicated that about 20% of users have already done ghosting or were victims dele.
Looking for serious and reliable love
Maus, crumbs and fickle ghosts rails are just some of the challenges that use users have to face. Everyone can leave their skeptical, cynical, frustrated or confused victims – But it doesn’t have to be that way.
As in Cinderella, where history continues after the ball, significant relationships can be built in real life, through real interactions and honest and open conversations. Instead of disappearing, scientific studies show that people feel a greater and more authentic connection when they invest time and effort to develop relationships that go beyond the superficial. In doing so, they build the basis for creating their own love story.
It is estimated that among young adults, two thirds of romantic relationships begin with friendship. As in fairy tales, where the characters approach before they find true love, a solid relationship is built with mutual understanding, trust and communication. To quote another story, let us not forget how beautiful and monster ended up together.
Above all, we have to remember that we are the protagonists of our own history. It is in our hands to write the end we want.
