Coni, 30 years, asexual: “I don’t connect with people through sex”
With 16 years, when her friends and friends began to party, to have quotes and to meet people, Coni realized that “I had neither desire nor attraction, nothing caught my attention.” From that moment, he began to investigate, to collect information and to go to sessions with the psychologist of my school: “I realized that it was asexual,” he says. As such, he does not feel sexual attraction towards other people.
When he moved from his native Chile to Spain, four years ago, he realized that, in addition to Asexual, it was also BI. She is asexual as long as she does not feel physical and sexual attraction towards other people, but it is bisexual because she experiences romantic and emotional attraction towards men and women. “I connect with people,” he defines herself.
“It is difficult to be bisexual and asexual for bifobia. Because of that there is the cliché that bisexuals like sex and have many sexual relations. In addition, lesbians draw me as a repressed lesbian, while the hetero say that I am curious. What I am asexual, and although I can have sex I do not need them. They are not a priority.”
He is sitting on the grass, on the Paseo del Prado, waiting for pride floats to pass. Coni is concerned about “the rise of conservatism and the limitations imposed on trans people.”
