Living with someone with these habits can be challenging, because negativity ends up draining our energies as well
Not always a bitter person reveals himself directly. Many times, she can try to disguise with little everyday attitudes, who go unnoticed, but say a lot about how she is inside.
These bitter people rarely admit their emotional state, but there are signs that reveal that something is not well.
Living with someone like this can be challenging. And if you identify with any of the following behaviors, it may be time to reflect on your own emotions.
Check out the most common signs of silent bitterness:
1. Complains everything, all the time
Nothing is good. Food, climate, traffic, work… The bitter person has to see the positive side of situations and often closes in a bubble of negativity.
2. Constant irony
Bitter people use irony as a form of defense. Acid comments, mooks and excess sarcasm are forms disguised on expressing unresolved hurts.
3. Envy disguised as criticism
When someone reaches something positive, the bitter person tends to disregard with phrases like “ah, but also with that support, anyone can” or “not all that, no.” It is an unconscious way of trying to reduce the other to feel less inferior.
4. Selective isolation
They move away from happy environments or positive people, as this ends up generating discomfort. It is common to prefer to be alone or among others who share the same dissatisfaction.
5. Resentment for past events
The person lives reviving old situations, brooding over hurts and resentments that should have been overcome. This prevents her from living the present lightly and reinforces her as a bitter person, which can be terrible for relationships.
6. Difficulty in demonstrating gratitude
Bitterness makes it difficult to recognize blessings and victories, however small. Even a kind gesture can be ignored or interpreted with suspicion.
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