Benny James (31) from London claims to take over for ten years Sleep with more than a thousand women. Once upon a time he thought he was just enjoying his life, but he later left him regret, emptiness and mental problems,
“I told myself I was just having fun. The truth was that I couldn’t be alone,” he admits. On women you have increased self -confidence, He had new acquaintances every week, Using social networks in nightclubs. However, he actually suffered Anxiety, depression and addiction to drugs and alcohol. “In the depth of my soul it eaten me. I didn’t realize it for a long time,” the man describes.
The change came only during the pandemic. In isolation, Benny realized that his way of life was destroying him. He limited alcohol, found his partner and started talking about mental health. Today is a campaign No More Waitingthat supports access to psychological assistance. Appeals to the fact that Men also need to talk about their feelings. “I’m not the type of Andrew Tate. If you want to have fun, have fun, but be clear why you do it,” he says.
According to Benny, they are Men for promiscuity celebrated, women condemned. But both genders can end up in trap the tinsel and loneliness. “When you get used to attention, normal life is suddenly difficult. I also fell, alcohol, drugs, gambling. Everything, ”Benny describes. Today he feels happily in a partnership and helps others. “I have found myself. And now everything is coming back in the form of love,” He praises the change.
