More and more couples mark expensive vacations (which they can often not afford) in a final attempt to save their relationship. Unfortunately, the problems the couple had at home range from vacation – and return – with them.
According to an inquiry recently performed by the US, almost half of adults are marking expensive trips as last attempt to save relationships in difficulties.
This “all or nothing” vacation represent a growing trend, in which couples believe that a scenario change It can almost magically solve deep problems in the relationship.
The phenomenon seems to be fed by Pressure of social networks and constant comparison with “Perfect Moments” that others share.
When they see romantic escapes or elaborate gestures from online friends, many feel diminished and end up marking expensive trips that often do not have financial capacity to pay.
However, couples often return from these ‘miraculous’ travels “even more resentful than before” Jaime Bronsteintherapist of relationships with more than 20 years of experience, quoted by.
“Spent money that could not spendcreated expectations impossible to fulfill and return to the same problems “Now aggravated by the financial stress,” says Bronstein.
The inquiry reveals worrying data on priorities in relationships. One in three people admitted remain in a toxic relationship or declining only To enjoy vacation already scheduledpreferring a temporary escape to mental well-being.
Experts warn that these “cures” of vacation rarely result. The problems that torment the couple at home They end up accompanying them on the trip and persist when they return to daily routine.
“Holidays are not therapyand treating them as a solution to our problems is one of the biggest mistakes a couple can make, ”says Bronstein.” When true problems return with you, impact and disappointment are even greater. “
Many couples are spend the last savings In these desperate attempts, creating more financial pressure and, consequently, more tension in the relationship.
The effect of “temporary paradiseThat a beautiful destination provides can mask problems for a while, but does not solve fundamental issues of compatibility or communication.
“In the face of difficulties in the relationship, couples should rather invest in sessions of professional therapy “Instead of expensive trips,” concludes Bronstein.
