The popular singer Dara Rolins (52) was a couple for many years with one of the most famous rappers on our scene – Patrik Rytmus Vrbovský (48). But in 2018, the couple announced their separation. Shortly after that, the rapper revealed that he is a couple with presenter Jasmina Alagič (36), with whom he now has a son, Sanel (6). In the podcast, Dara spoke openly about their breakup.
They both felt it. “In this case, there was no pain because it was very natural. The breakup had been on the agenda for a year. It was just not known, but we parted as if in peace and love. Really, what came next surprised me, took me by surprise, I found it completely unnecessary. I think that even Patrik seems to be reassessing it differently with the passage of time and he will surely say to himself today that he would have solved it differently, because we are adults,” she responded to her ex-partner’s comments at the time.
According to her, was it a show on his part? “I don’t know what it was, nor do I need to evaluate it in any way. I guess he felt that way at that moment. Again, as I understand it, he simply had another woman by his side, a fiery woman, maybe he thought it was stupid or right at that moment to approach it like that and deny it and simply say that it was nothing at all before, because this is the real nutDara thinks.
But she didn’t see it that way. “I feel differently, because for me, whether the relationship starts or ends, it doesn’t matter, but I was in it voluntarily for almost six or seven years, I don’t know how many years, and you’re letting yourself down when you say that the relationship wasn’t good, it wasn’t good, I didn’t love him, so I love you now. That’s nonsense. I wouldn’t be with anyone I didn’t love one hundred percent and I wouldn’t live in a relationship that didn’t really mean everything to me at that moment,” she said of her perspective on the matter.
It was real for the singer. “I believed it, it wasn’t a form, it wasn’t a pose that I needed to be even more famous. I was really in love, it was great. For at least 3-4 years, in my opinion, we were just like the fact that they were happy and it was extreme love that extra, it was hell and all the relationships that I look back on in my memories were like that. At least for a while, for a while. I would never say I love you looking into his eyes without really feeling it“, she admitted.
He does not compare his former relationships. “So I don’t want to deny any relationship and I don’t want to evaluate that it was better, that one was worse. No, every single one of them was fantastic in their time. Whether it lasted a month, half a year, a year, 6 years is a question, but when it was, it was perfectDara continued.
Although she was reconciled to the breakup, it was not easy for her. “Well, the truth is, it’s a mix of all the feelings, as if to say that I had such insight that it didn’t concern me, then I would be lying to myself, to you, to you, and that seems completely stupid and pointless to me, because at my age there really isn’t any need to play theatrics and convince someone otherwise. I’m saying, I feel that either I amuse someone and someone is amused by my opinions and attitude towards life, or let them switch to someone else,” she declared forcefully.
The end of their relationship was closely watched. “Every breakup is painful, and this one was like that for a.) you don’t want two nations to solve it with you, no separation, it’s always unpleasant when attention is drawn to it and when it stops affecting only those two people, but everyone else starts rooting for it, and everyone is an expert on Dara, everyone is an expert on how it was, how it wasn’t,” he says after a while.
But she doesn’t like one thing. “It was hard for me to bear the fact that people felt sorry for me. I was the most upset about it.. because I hate it in any other context. It’s like I’m having a really hard time coming to terms with that. Is that what they say? It’s like a feeling that I don’t like even towards me, when someone sends it, like you, my poor girl, and starts,” she said honestly.
They knew it wasn’t going to work for them anymore. “I was the one who wanted and normally we made a wise decision, because I knew that neither he nor I were simply made for each other. We simply went through a certain path together, as it happens with men and women in relationships,” continued Dara.
“It was neither the first nor the second nor the third time, but we have experienced other relationships before and what happens is that you will get to the moment when he already feels that you don’t love that person, you don’t want to continue with him and because you still like him within the framework of what you have experienced together, you wish him another love, fireworksI just like you wish him for him, so it was in my case, so I wanted him for myself,” she admitted.
She wanted to find the right one. “You know it’s normal like being in love again, feeling again what I felt at the beginning and we both knew that our paths simply had to part, so I was rather disappointed by the way in which it was subsequently handled, but it just took on such a different stench,” she described the end of their relationship.
The singer gets angry when people put someone in a box. “But it totally annoys me and I don’t like that. And that actually bothered me even during the breakup, an awful lot of people started to get involved and twisted things that maybe were said somehow, but weren’t really meant that way, both in his case, and in mine, and in all the others who were concerned at that moment,” she revealed, which finally upset her.
Today, however, everything is different. “So I say, it’s history today. We’ve all turned the page. We are at peace, we like to see each other, we have met Patrik on stage several times since then and it was always very spontaneous. And I say, today, today it’s like that, really at peace and with a smile on my face,” she added.
