In the past, when we were younger and closer, we discussed for hours. Sometimes, often under four eyes, sensitive topics when we thought something went wrong. In relationships, children’s topics, addictive behavior, psychological abnormalities, misconduct towards others, body. Changes. Then came from the best friend “I think you spoil XXX too much! She is already dancing around on your nose!” Or: “Don’t you drink a little bit, lately?” Or: “Did you gain? Move more!” Often you were angry. But then reflected and came up with the fact that there is already something on it. But has taken the same freedom and openness to close friends. Now we have all got older. Have already accepted some strokes of fate. The children, the connecting link, have dropped out of the house. And we have become more sensitive. Leave “criticism”, which in reality is not, no longer allowed. What is that or that? This is my private matter! Are we getting private when we get older? How are you? Do you feel that too? Or were the limits of openness, always closely set to friends?
