The spouses Adela (44) and Viktor (34) The Vinczecs have gone a lengthy journey until they became the parents of the adoptive son of Maxík (3). Before they entrusted their child to care, they went to preparation where they learned a lot about themselves and their relationship. The well -known presenter spoke about it in the podcast.
“It was more of a partly getting to know each other. Which is also very important, because we often go to parenting with someone we don’t know at all. We do not even know ourselves, and that often come to those children to find out who we live with and who we are“She told.
They also discussed topics that couples were not normally talked about and remembered one example she had stuck in her memory. “We dealt with what our first memory of life is. It is said psychologically that what we remember first of life defines us very much. What we are, ” She shared. She added that the memory may not be true, but as we were convinced of it.
Vincze revealed what she first remembers. “It’s very funny because I remember my first day in kindergarten when I was about 2.5 years old. I was in a German kindergarten and I didn’t understand anyone. I felt betrayed, abandoned. I also remember the bag in which I had two apples. I told myself I must not eat them because it is my last contact with my family when they never come to me to have a memory of them“Adela said.
She explained that the fear of abandonment then accompanied her for a long time and defined it in relationships. “Therefore, I did everything possible in relationships because I was afraid to be abandoned. That was related to it,” said Adela Vincze.
