Are you described as a difficult human being to get along with, but you can’t understand why? Let’s help you!
Interpersonal coexistence is one of the greatest challenges of human behavior and many daily conflicts arise when certain attitudes create inconsistencies. Psychology indicates that it is not just harsh words that push people away: certain emotional or behavioral patterns reveal, in a subtle or direct way, that we have difficulty in relating.
10 characteristics that make you difficult to live with, according to psychology
1. Has a consistent lack of empathy towards everyone
The lack of empathy is always demonstrated in specific moments, but becomes indifferent to other people’s feelings on a routine basis. And this ends up generating a certain emotional distance.
2. Excessive control over people or situations
There is a frequent tendency to want to command or plan everything, leaving little room for autonomy from others, creating constant tension. There is always an exaggerated desire to have power over everything and everyone.
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3. Is always acting in a compulsive critical or judgmental tone towards others
You often evaluate the actions of others with stricter, more conservative judgment, making every interaction a possible occasion for blame.
4. Difficulty admitting failures or apologizing
When you make a mistake, you tend to immediately justify or not recognize the impact on the other, preventing true reconciliation. People who are difficult to get along with apologize infrequently and are horrible at admitting any flaws in behavior or character.
5. Need for exaggerated attention
Lack dominates you in a surprising way. You seek continuous recognition, praise, validation or standing out among others and may react badly when you don’t receive it or when someone steals your space.
6. Emotional isolation or extreme self-demand
These two factors are very present in the personality of a person who is difficult to live with. Tends to keep feelings bottled up or demands too much of himself (and others), creating emotional disconnection. It’s always an 8 or 80 in emotions.
7. Inflexibility in the face of changes or different opinions
A person who hardly assumes that other ways of thinking or acting are valid; a lot of intransigence and prefers everything to fit their way of being and living. Doesn’t care much about other people
8. You have a lot of resistance to listening without reacting more defensively
When someone points out something uncomfortable, you react with automatic defense and prevent a more reflective dialogue. He is a person with more complex reaction and action behavior.
9. Frequent acidic humor or sarcasm
Humor says a lot about people like this. Cutting comments are always used as a form of protection or an escape valve, but they end up hurting and alienating those you live with.
10. Difficulty establishing healthy boundaries in relationships
You either exceed the limits of others around you, or allow them to invade your own spaces, and this oscillation confuses and strains relationships.
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