Internet users elected the most inappropriate moments to do this and the reasons were several
There are perfect dating and indicated to order a person in dating and there are also those in which we should never do that.
So, even to order someone in dating there is more appropriate moment. See now which you should not even think about doing this. Avoid future trauma.
6 dates not to ask someone to date (attract bad luck to the relationship)
1. Graduation
Graduation is an important moment and a person’s personal achievement. Thus, it represents years of effort, overcoming and dedication. It is a unique and unique moment and making a dating request that day can spoil everything (if you finish) and take the focus off the person’s celebration, putting attention to you and the relationship.
Also, she may feel pressured to have to give a positive answer like that suddenly, even if she is not right, just not to ruin the mood of the occasion.
2. Day 31 of any month
Asking someone in dating on the 31st of a month it may seem symbolic, but it has a practical problem: not every month has 31 days and not everyone will have money right now to celebrate month life.
3. New Year
Also don’t do this on that date. New Year is a moment loaded with intense expectations and emotions. Amid the euphoria of the cycle turn, the request may seem impulsive or made in the heat of the moment. This can take the authenticity of the decision.
In addition, the request can be lost in the midst of agitation and be remembered more as part of the party than as a special gesture. Not to mention that if you end, there is the trauma of the memory annually.
4. On Valentine’s Day
A little ironic, but although it seems romantic, Valentine’s Day can create unnecessary pressure.
The person may find that the request was made only because of the date, not for real feelings. In addition, this is a time when expectations are in the highest, which can make any refusal more painful or any more doubtful acceptance. And if you end at some point, this date is marked very negatively.
5. On the Person’s Birthday Day
On the anniversary of the person or yours, the focus must be in the celebration of the person’s life and not in relationship decisions. Do not distort the focus.
So a request may seem that you are “giving yourself as a gift” or trying to make the day about you. Also, if the answer is negative or uncertain, the birthday mood becomes a true wake. Not to mention that if you finish someday, the traumatic experience will echo annually on these dates.
6. Christmas or any other important moment for you or the person
Finally, special occasions like Christmas are loaded with emotional symbolism and family union. Thus, a request for may seem opportunistic or displaced, as well as mixing emotions that should be quite different.
Worse, if the answer is no, it can negatively mark a date that was once a source of joy to one or both. It is also worth when it is a promotion celebration of your or the person, a championship final in which they are playing, finally, a special date that is important for those who are there and not for the relationship itself.
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