After ghosting (disappearing without a trace), situations (conditional relationships without clear declarations) and curving (having illusive hope to keep a second person in the reserve) in the world, including In Poland, another dangerous dating trend is gaining more and more popularity known as shrekking or shreking.
This name is very original and seems new, but it really is behind the old behavior mechanism well known also in earlier generations. It may not be as cruel as the previously mentioned, but also brings unpleasant consequences and lead to unsuccessful relationships.
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Shreking is a dating trend that involves a deliberate reduction of standards. It consists in dating a person who is considered less attractive than each other. You can not even feel a physical train. People who behave in this way, work deliberately and have a hidden goal.
People who do so usually the point is that They want to gain a loyal and well -treating partner who is trying about them and cares in return for paying attention to him. However, this is harmful and does not quite make sense, because the tastes are different, so A person from the so -called “Lower shelf” for one can be super -attractive for the other.
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Shreking is a bad idea because it is based on a false, cool calculation. It is a game of someone else’s feelings and assessing others only by appearance. Everyone looks at physicality to a greater or lesser extent, but entering a relationship with someone who is not interested in you is a fraud and wasting time of that person.
She could get to know at that time to be in a relationship with a man with honest intentions (also yours, because sooner or later you will be missing sparks). Do not assume in advance that your partner will appreciate you only because in his opinion it is less attractive than you.
He may not be careful and has full right to do so. What’s more, it may turn out that this “ugly” will betray you or simply will not leave you suddenly ... You are not the navel of the world.
As emphasized by Emma Hathorn from Seeking.com “USA Today”: “The external appearance does not reveal someone’s character.” Life is not a fairy tale, so realize that not everyone thinks the same. Even Shrek can break your heart, so choose people who interest you.
Are you afraid that you can become a victim of a person with insincere intentions? There is no 100 % method to avoid it. For sure, however You should not trust every newly recognized person right away.
It is worth spending some time to get to know it before entering into a relationship (potential fraudsters who want to sneak you can be outraged that you would have to wait for them, because it was supposed to be so easy and you were supposed to fall to their feet right away)
Dating an expert, Amy Chan, advises “USA Today” to develop the skills of assessing character, value and emotional availability. Instead of assessing people only after appearance, it is also worth focusing on looking for common interests, a similar sense of humor, values, empathy or respect for others. The most important is the heart of another person.
