Successful entrepreneur and influencer Laura Vizváryová admitted some time ago that she no longer forms a couple with politician Boris Kollár. For some time now, the blonde has been posting videos on the social network in which she gives advice on often very sensitive topics. Many times these are the words women need to hear to open their eyes. These are mainly relational topics.
In one of the last videos, Laura talks about how important it is to choose a partner. “I mentioned it last time, didn’t I 95% of success in a relationship depends on the choice of partner. It took me a while, but it makes so much sense. We usually get intimate first, fall in love, and only then find out if it works at all with the partner or not,” she described how most relationships begin.
However, it should be different. “But in reality it should be exactly the opposite. First you choose and then you get emotionally attached. Human behavior is largely predictable. If someone doesn’t have stability in the beginning, they usually won’t have it later either. If someone needs freedom and chaos, then love does not make him a family type. And what is really important for me, love alone cannot fix fundamental disagreements,” she explained what she specifically meant by that.
At the beginning of a relationship, everything may seem like a fairy tale. “It can only cover them up for a while. But over time, the disagreements will show up anyway. People do not change under pressure as we hope. Because they will revert to their basic patterns“, she named the bitter reality.
The first thing is to think about your future. “That is why it is so important to choose carefully. Not just by chemistry, not just by spark, but by values and compatibility. Because spark will make you fall in love, but compatibility will decide if you can live together long term,” added Laura in the video, which you can find at the end of the article.
